Women, Forget Romance Novels, 5 Easy Tips To Get More Romance
From Your Husband
Give him sex more. According to Kinsey, 78% of married women over 30 have their husbands on a STARVATION DIET of sex once a week or less when the average man needs sexual relief 3 times a week. Sex is the glue that holds the marriage together or the lack that drives marriages apart. Sex feels good and is good for you. It releases endorphins in the brain and is equivalent to a 30 minute gym work-out. If you gave him sex 4 times a week it averaging a half hour, it would only come to a measly 1% of your time in the week. If you can’t give him 1% your priorities need adjusting.
2. Give him romance. Do you think that romance should only be a one way street? Do you realize that this would make you a taker and no one likes or appreciates takers. Women grew up fantasizing about “happily ever after” but fail to realize that men did too and you never gave a thought as to what that looks like for your husband. Men need romance too, like lacy frilly lingerie worn daily for him and initiating sex once in a while and by ditching those inhibitions holding you back from fully embracing your sexuality.
3. Make time to make memories doing some things that he likes to do. You have to ditch the mommy mode on a regular basis and embrace the wife mode and keep working on the relationship on a daily basis. Relationships that are ignored end
4. Show him respect. We are in a society that is rampant with Misandry. (reverse sexism by women against men) Wikipedia does a great job of explaining this and illustrating it. But we see it even in the commercials where the husband is portrayed as this hapless boob who has once again gotten himself and/or his family into trouble yet again. The “heroic wife” swoops in to save the day all the while tossing off condescending and demeaning remarks to her husband. We even have the infamous columnist for the NY Slimes (sarcasm intended) Maureen Dowd publishing a dead serious rant explaining that the only reason in today’s society for men is to be sperm donors. Imagine how you would feel if some jerk male columnist said that the only reason for women in today’s society is to be brood mares? Oh yea I forgot, Rappers already do that
5. Learn to resolve conflicts with him peacefully. Make the problem the enemy instead of your mate. Listen to him when he has a problem with you instead of yelling, screaming,crying and name calling with the intent to teach that no good man to never ever critique you again. Hear him out and ask him in what way can we resolve this in a collaborative fashion rather than making it a huge battle. Lack of good conflict resolution skills is the number one cause of break ups in marriage
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