First realize that romance should not be a “one way street”. Men want to be romanced as well, it is good for their ego. If you were brought up in the church, forget about all those sex negative messages that you were taught like: “sex is bad dirty and wrong and good girls don’t do it.” Here is a verse that they will never teach you in church or Sunday school: let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. Proverbs 5:19. Ravished is just an arcane term meaning GREAT SEX!
Speaking of breasts, you need to make the most of your “girls”. Sometimes take his hand and place it over your breast with your hand over his. It means that you accept his love and affection. When he goes to nuzzle and suck on your nipples, wrap your arms around his head lovingly and tell him how good it feels. Tell him to take all the time that he wants because you are enjoying it. Here is another great technique for the girls. Get him naked and give him a “nipple massage”. This entails you being naked too, but you get him to lie on his back preferably in the light and bend over him and just let your nipples alone graze his body. Then go up and down his whole body with nothing more than your nipples. Give his penis a lot of attention with your nipples, stroke them all over his face and let him lick and suck them to his hearts content. Turn him over on his stomach and do the whole back of his body. He will love it. When he is done making love with you, cuddle his face into your breasts and just hold him. It is VERY NURTURING!
Sometimes when you go to the movies, wear a short skirt and bring an extra pair of panties in your pace along with a small hand towel. Sit on the towel and then once the movie starts grab his hand and slide it up your skirt and slide it inside your panties and tell him you want him to get you off in the movies, when you come bury your head in his chest and scream quietly. Then slide off the wet panties and give them to him and put on the fresh pair of panties and give him a blow job in return right there in the movie theatre. I suggest going all the way to the back row if you do this.
Get a tight fitting sweater and a very short pleated skirt and wear your laciest frilliest panties on underneath it. Then do a cheerleader routine for him giving him high kicks but instead of the tights normally under a cheerleader skirt het gets to see your panties. Believe me, I don’t know of a single adolescent boy who did not have this fantasy in high school so give it to him. Then order him to get on his knees in front of you and pull up that skirt and order him to lick you between your legs until you get off. He will love it.
Every guy fantasizes about getting a blow job going down the highway. If you have never done it, now is the time to start.
Get over your inhibitions about talking dirty. Men LOVE IT when you talk dirty in bed. Men love it when you moan in bed and they definitely love it when you scream in bed when he makes you come. It is the ultimate romance thing that you can do for him.
Finally here is a real turn romance move. Find one of your girlfriends who is open minded and ask her if she would be willing to go to a motel with the four of you, you and your guy and her and her guy. Tell her that you want to all four make love in the same room. Make sure to get two beds. Agree up front that there will be no swapping and no cross touching but that you will all make love with the lights on. Then in the morning the two of you girls get up and run around getting ready make up and hair while running around in nothing but panties. It is the ultimate romance move for your guys. I know two couples who did this more than fifty times and never got old and then they would all go to breakfast in the morning.
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