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Things to Consider for First Time Sex Toy Buyers

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This is a guest post about buying sexual aids to improve your sex life, ENJOY

John Wilder

 

 

 

Everyone that pretty much lives and breathes wild times in the bedroom has to buy his or her first ever sex toy and chances are everyone goes through the same period of doubt and worry. After all, with thousands on the market it pretty much goes without saying that not every ‘tool’ out there is the best for every job.

So with this in mind, here are a few tips from the experts when it comes to buying a sex toy for the first time:

Keep it Simple

Firstly, the biggest and most important piece of advice that outweighs all others is to keep it small and simple. Chances are that if you take home the world’s most enormous and terrifyingly proportioned vibrator first time around, it might be the last time you bother. There are so many sex toys and gadgets you can pick up that are effortless to use and guaranteed to take things to a new level, without scaring the living daylights out of you. From cock rings to vibrating eggs and even through to things as simple as gels and oils to make that first step, it’s all about staying in your comfort zone and saving the industrial-strength appliances for later…if you decide to keep going.

 

Follow Advice

Next up, use an online sex retailer that offers concise yet comprehensive advice on every kind of sex toy, with tips as to which ones in the catalogue are the best for first-time buyers. Chances are you won’t be thrilled with the idea of discussing your intimacies with the guy behind the counter as the sex shop on the High Street, so be sure instead to take some advice from the best online retailer you can find.

Keep it Cheap

And finally, don’t forget that for pretty obvious reasons you won’t be able to get your money back if you decide you’ve bought the wrong thing – the advice therefore being not to get carried away with spending. Easy enough though, as for less than a tenner you can pick up the kind of supplies needed to give you and yours a pretty good taste of what you’ve been missing…and then the fun and games really begin!

 

By Brian Bell

Brian Bell is calling upon his years of experience in the sex retail industry to try and convert Australia by letting the public know there is so much more to what’s on offer than huge dildos and painfully kinky gadgets.

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How To Romance Men Ideas for Women

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temporary1It will come as a shock to many women that you should also be romancing your husband as well.

Here is why:  It builds his self esteem and makes him feel loved and cherished.  It helps create a stronger

bond between the two of you.  Isn’t that reason enough?

 

Some tips on how to romance your man.  The first thing that I recommend is to ask him in what ways

that he would like to be romanced.  Every guy will have different ideas about that but flowers are NOT

the way to do it.  We simply don’t react to them the way that you do.

 

Become sexually adventurous and give him sex willingly and lovingly.

Wear lacy and frilly lingerie.  It is not slutty but sophisticated.  It is time to abandon

those little girl virginal white panties with no lace and by the way cotton panties only belong

on little girls and little old ladies, not sophisticated women like you.  Wear a short dress or skirt

when you go out with him and flash him when he opens the car door for you,  Most men love looking up

your skirt or dress and seeing panties, it makes our whole day.  It is a simple thing that costs you nothing

but pays huge dividends in his love bank.

 

Instead of always making him approach you for sex, you be the aggressor once in a while.  It makes him feel like

he still has it and makes him feel loved and cherished.

 

Be willing to discuss his and your fantasies and give him the ones you feel comfortable with and he will reciprocate.

Go skinny dipping with him.  It will make you and him feel very naughty and the feeling of swimming naked is incredible, everyone

should try it at least once.

 

Finally give him a treat and wear sexy nightgowns every night not just when you are going to have sex.  BTW most men need sex 3-4

times a week, why would you force him to do without sex against his will?

 

Now how about leaving your favorite way to romance your man in the comments section? For more ideas

ask for my soon to be published book if you will promise to review it when it is published

 

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8 Sure Fire Ways for Women To Become Marriage Material

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This is a guest post from Yahoo Love and Sex.  Women you need to pay attention to your sexuality and get rid of those “little girl” inhibitions and become a fully functioning highly sexual woman if you want a happy marriage.  You also need to get rid of those virginal white nylon panties with no lace and trade them in for some sexy panties with lace and color.

  Sadly churches only teach all the negative messages about sex and never teach you all the sex positive messages from the bible about sex.  If you would like to get my Sex and The Bible article showing all the great sex positive messages from the Bible, send me an email requesting it to marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

John Wilder

 

After This You’ll Be 8-Steps Closer to Being the “Marrying Kind”

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by QuickieChick Laurel House

Engagement RingWhat makes you the marrying kind? What compels a man to choose you over everyone else, to kneel down at your feet on one knee and ask you to be his wife?

Being the “Marrying Kind” is a complex dance, a balancing act, a study of opposites. Still, there are 8 main elements that make for wife material… and all 8 have been perfectly exemplified in this season of “The Bachelor”…:

1. Confidence
Guys want to feel like they won the prize, like they are dating the head of the cheer-leading team. They want to feel like they are the luckiest guy in the room. If you have a bummer, insecure, self-deprecating, “I’m not so great” attitude, why would he feel like he scored? Be confident. That doesn’t mean cocky, rude, arrogant, egotistical, or self-involved. That means self-assured, capable, believing in yourself and your abilities- whatever those abilities are.

2. Strength
Can you stand tall when he experiences moments of weakness? Or will you wither and collapse without having his strength? Can you take care of business and hold your own if need be? That strength takes some of the pressure off him, and allows him to want to be strong for you, as opposed to making him feel like he has to be strong for you.

3. Vulnerability
Exposing your weaknesses maybe seem to be the opposite of strength, but it’s just as important (and even sexy). Showing your fragility, your pain points, your insecurities and even revealing things that you have done that you are not proud of or regret… now that takes confidence. It can also shine a light even brighter on your strengths. How? If he knows that you have certain fears, and then he watches you tackle them anyway- even if you fail, that shows strength and determination, it shows your will. Letting him in on your vulnerabilities also shows him that you need him, that you can’t always fend for yourself, that you want him to take care of you. And guys love that. They love to feel wanted, more than that- they love to feel needed. It gives them a sense of purpose and duty.

You also need to show him that he makes you feel vulnerable- in a good way… the best way- because your heart is open. Show him how much you love him. Tell him how crazy you are about him. Let him know that you have never felt this way before. Your emotional vulnerability makes him feel more confident about your feelings for him, and therefore more confident that you won’t turn him down or leave him.
“THE BACHELOR” EXAMPLE: Sean needed every girl to tell him “I love you,” even though he couldn’t say it back. It was her way of showing him how serious she is and how in deep she is for him. If she can’t say it, if she can’t go there- exposing her heart… she’s out.

Still, again, it’s a balance. There are some things that you shouldn’t reveal… Watch: “Why Hating Your Body is Destroying Your Sex Life”…

4. Nurturing
You can be vulnerable, and show him that you need him, but you also can take care of him. No matter how strong, independent and masculine he is, all men love to be nurtured, taken care of, and even babied at times. Showing him that you can be a nurturer lets him know that he can put his guard down and that it’s ok and safe to need you. And then you’ve got him… When a guy exposes weakness, when he lets you in to see his vulnerable side, that’s where the power lies. And I’m not saying that in a way that’s game playing or manipulative. This isn’t to take advantage. This is to get in and stay in. It’s to create a feeling and a place of safety with you.
WATCH: This Video Could Save Your Marriage… Literally.

5. Fun
You’ve got to be able to be silly together. Life and work can be so stressful! Your partner is the one person who you can let your guard down around. At home or out, when no one else is watching, that’s when it’s safe to do ridiculous dances, speak in strange voices, just be you- not the “appropriate,” contrived, careful-what-you-say-and-do side that you exhibit in the office or even around friends. Don’t be afraid to let go, let loose, get out of your box, dance in the rain, even eat bugs in Thailand (like Lindsay did on “The Bachelor”) and have simple silly fun!
“THE BACHELOR” EXAMPLE: You have to balance the fun with depth. On “The Bachelor,” Sean feared that Lindsay, who entered the show wearing a wedding dress, at first appeared as the too happy-go-lucky type who lacked emotional depth. He soon learned that she had a lot of complexity beneath her free spirit. But she was close to be off’ed because she initially lacked the balance.

6. Laugh
Along the same lines as having fun, but even more basic- laugh out loud, and a lot! Laughter isn’t just medicine, it’s a stress reliever and an emotional connector. It creates levity and breeds light and life! Don’t always take yourself (or him) so seriously. Guys want to feel funny (yes, even the seemingly serious types like to know they can tell a good joke). And when you laugh, make it authentic and don’t hold back. Forget the polite little giggle. Let it out! Sometimes you have to put yourself in the headspace to laugh, telling yourself to take it easy, get out of that serious mode and allow your mood to lighten.
“THE BACHELOR” EXAMPLE: Despite the fact that AshLee seemingly was “everything that I was looking for” and the best for him “on paper,” it was her too intense energy that ultimately turned Sean off. What did he mean? They didn’t laugh as much as he did with Catherine and Lindsay.

7. Happy / Make Him Feel Good!
At the end of the day, a guy wants to feel good. He wants to be happy, to laugh, to have fun- yes, but more than that, he wants to be content. He wants to be able to sit next to you watching TV, or lay there with you at night, and just be… be happy. He wants to feel enlivened by your smile, refueled by your belief in him, and at peace in your presence. He wants to feel smart, funny, strong, needed, important, successful, and hot! He wants you to be proud of him. He wants to feel like he is the most important thing in the world, the center of your universe (just like his mom made him feel). And you, more than anyone else, have the ability to make him feel that way.
“THE BACHELOR” EXAMPLE: Catherine and her many many compliments to Sean of how much of a “hunk” he is.

8. Pride
Just as he wants you to be proud of him, he wants to be proud of you. You aren’t his dirty little secret, his momentary hook-up, his friend, or even just his girlfriend. You are his choice- the best he can do. And he wants to feel proud of you. Whether it’s your looks, brain, triumphs, the respect you garner, your career, or simply how you push yourself through pain points and get out of box, he wants to feel like he can show you off…. Someone he can “bring home to mom.”

Oh… and someone who he has insane sexual chemistry with is essential too. Yes- “a lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets!”

xx
Laurel

Laurel HouseLaurel House is a LifeStylist, Dating and Relationship Expert, 4x published Lifestyle Author, and nationally recognized Print and Online Magazine

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15 Great Sex Tips For Women To Improve Your Sex Life

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Posted by Aunt Becky on January 13, 2012 at 8:09 PM

It’s hard, especially if you’ve been a long-term relationship or marriage, to keep the sexy alive. It’s easy to fall into a rut when it comes to a romp in the bedroom — we’ve all done it — and harder than ever to come back out of the rut with some new sexy moves.

There’s no one better to discuss how to please a man then, well, another man.

Here are 15 suggestions from guys about how to bring the heat back into your relationship:

1. Strap on some sexy stockings and a garter belt.

2. Keep your naughty bits well-maintained. A simple trim can suffice if a bikini wax is an undesirable (ouch!) option.

3. Try a lap-dance or a sexy strip-tease. That doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune on lingerie — you can easily remove the frumpiest clothes sexily.

4. Sexy texts can really get him going. Send him something like, “I can’t wait for you to get home tonight — got a surprise for you,” and, well, give him a surprise!

5. If you’re separated by many miles, try phone sex. It may feel weird at first, but it can be wicked sexy if you go with it.

6. Try something new. If your man isn’t someone who is loud in the bedroom, explore new territory with him.

7. Lose all your inhibitions. Nothing revs a man up more than knowing that what he’s doing to you is driving you wild.

8. Guide him into doing what you like. Take his hand and put it wherever you’d like it to go — not only is this sexy for you, it’s a total turn-on for a guy.

9. Just like women like a blended orgasm (more than one part of the vagina stimulated at the same time), men do, too. Try mixing up a hand-job or a blow-job by playing with his testicles.

10. Talk dirty to him. If you’re not used to it, it may feel WAY awkward, but the more you do it, the more second-nature it will become. And there’s a bonus! It may turn you on, too.

11. Bust out the sex toys — remember, they can be multipurpose. Use them to stimulate the shaft of the penis while giving a blow-job to bring him to new heights of orgasm.

12. Switch positions. It’s easy to fall into the whole, “We have sex missionary style,” or “I’m always on top,” but you may find yourself pleasantly surprised by new positions.

13. Make sex a surprise. Put on his favorite pair of underwear and meet him at the door when he comes home from work.

14. Join him in the shower. No reason getting clean can’t come AFTER getting dirty.

15. Bring a bunch of pillows into the bedroom. They’ll help to achieve — and enjoy — new sexual positions.

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More Tips on How To Very Naughty and Yet Moral

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More Tips on Being Very Naughty and Yet Moral
I had a woman reader enjoy the post about being naughty and yet moral and asked if I planned any followups. I told her that I would do one because I always like to give my readers what they want.

Here is another very naughty thing that is fun to do. Go to the movies and have your wife wear a short skirt. During the movie, slide your hand up that skirt and inside her panties an get her off right there in the movies. She will have to bury her head on your shoulder for when she comes so as not to attract attention of everyone in the theatre. It is a little bit dangerous which makes more exciting. Be a gentleman and have a fresh pair of panties in your pocket for her to change into because the panties that she has on will be soaked.

Go to the drive in movies if they still have one in your town and do it in the drive in theatre like teenagers and let out a scream when you or she comes. People around you will hear you but won’t be able to see in the car.

If you enter a building with a freight elevator, you can stop it without an alarm going off and do it right there in the elevator.

Go to an amusement park and go on the ferris wheel and slide your hand up her skirt and get her off right there on the ferris wheel, people can see her panties when you come to the bottom of the rotation and get a peek but then you go back up again. It is very naughty.

When you go shopping, go into the dressing room with her and do it right there in the dressing room.

Use your own imagination to do something very naughty and over the top and have fun and have more sex. It feels good and you need more of it. Good sex at least twice a week has been proven to decrese the changes of a heart attack by over 50%

Blessings on you and yours
John Wilder

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The Number 1# Mistake Most Wives Make

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This is a great guest post found in Your Frisky online magazine for women. It completely agrees with what I have been writing on here. Read it, the marriage that you save could be your own.
Blessings on you and yours
John Wilder

By Sarah Baron
A friend of the Anonymous8 is a single middle age woman who is petite, beautiful, and a go-getter. She has dated a lot. She is interested in a long term relationship, so she is careful who she dates. She has gone out with numerous men, and boy, did she learn something interesting from listening to them.

One night she explained that she made a major discovery about men from her new dating life. Now, we are all curious. We wondered what is it that she found out?

What she has discovered is so simple and basic and it makes so much sense that you will want to slap yourself in the forehead. Sometimes you need to hear it from the outside to see if it applies to you.
First, almost all of the men she has seen are divorcees. She explains that every one of her dates tells her the same story.

“Ladies, let me tell you what. All of these men, they say exactly the same thing to me. And you can see it in each of their eyes. They felt ignored, like their needs weren’t met, like they were last on the list. They tell me this EVERY SINGLE TIME (take your index finger and tap it with vigor on the table while reading that for emphasis), that they were put behind the kids and the friends and were not led to feel as important as other parts of their ex-wives lives. They were lonely. Each man’s story – it’s like a broken record.” And with that last thought, she lets out a sigh.

She goes on. From there, the marriages start to die. These men saw the needs of everyone else came before their needs were met. They were all lonely, and things fell apart.

Of course, this got us all thinking. Have we been doing this to our husbands? Or have our husbands been doing this to us? And it was a slap in the face, a wake up call, and a chance to readjust some of our priorities.

The moral of the story for me is that marriage needs to be at the top of the priority list. I heard it once like this – take care of yourself first (yea! like that’s real easy or achievable when you are in the trenches with kids and jobs and husbands to tend to…), your marriage second, and your kids third. Kids need a happy mom and dad, a supportive family unit, and parents who invest in each other.

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10 Great Places To Have Hot Sex

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This post is form Men’s Health. It can heat up your sex life. Enjoy
John Wilder

If men weren’t great explorers, we never would have found America, the Rockies, or scrambled porn on channel 99. So why should our entire sex life always take place in the same spot? Here’s our list of the best places to fool around.

On the Washer
Your washing machine produces more vibration than any other appliance in your home. When your butt’s on the lid, the motion is transmitted through your pelvis, essentially turning your member into a life-size vibrator.

In the Vault
To really add some spice to your sex life, make a quick stop at your bank. A safe-deposit-box room is quiet, the door is locked, and there’s no camera. It’s a great place to make a deposit and withdrawal.

At Victoria’s Secret
The best dressing rooms for sex are at Victoria’s Secret. Sometimes they have love seats in there. Ask the saleswoman if you can go in to make sure you like what your girlfriend is trying on.

In a Beanbag Chair
You can contour it to any shape, and it’ll support you in ways you’re not accustomed to. Doggy-style sex works great when she’s on her belly, draped over the amorphous blob (the chair, not you).

During Christmas at the In-Laws’
Bring the kids’ gifts—wrapped, but in a bag. Say you haven’t wrapped them yet and duck into a spare room.

A ’57 Chevy
That’s our nostalgic choice. For more practical men, it’s the Ford Excursion, which measures a romp-friendly 227 inches long. As one salesman put it, “It’ll hold 36 sheets of half-inch plywood between the wheel wells.” Which is one way of thinking of it.

On An Exercise Ball
The ball can actually help improve your depth of penetration, if you’re in the right position. Sit on the ball and have her straddle you, facing away from you. Hold her hips for balance, and use the rocking motion of the ball to thrust in and out of her from behind. Do one set of at least 50 repetitions.

A National Park
If the missus likes to vocalize, pitch your tent in Alaska’s Denali National Park, where 6 million untamed acres and a crowd-thinning permit system leave little risk of waking the neighbors. She’ll gasp in delight when the midnight sun bathes the Big One (that’s Mt. McKinley, buddy) in salmon pink light

The Elevator
Try a freight elevator. It won’t have an alarm, and you can stop it between floors for more privacy. Try this when you and your partner are helping a buddy move into a new apartment. Pack the front and sides of the elevator with boxes; leave the middle clear.

The Garage

At a friend’s party, offer to fetch some more beer, then slip out the garage door. Nobody will think anything of you being away for 20 minutes, and you can always hide behind the car if you hear someone coming.

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7 Tips For Snagging Mr. Right For Women

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Women, if you are having trouble with a man or men, does it not make sense to talk to a trusted man than to your girlfriends? It is like Sex and The City. Carrie went to her gal pal posse who were equally clueless about men with her man problems. In that vein, I have put down these 7 sure fire tips for finding and keeping Mr. Right.

1. Men are looking for a best friend and confidante’. You need to modify your behavior so that he feels safe to bring anything up with you. This includes negatives about you. The number one complaint that I get in my practice is that women don’t make it safe for a guy to bring complaints about you to you. Women tend to become highly defensive when the guy has a critique or complaint about you. They tend to get loud and verbally abusive. While critique is hard to hear, you need to listen and ask him: “in what way can I resolve this?”

2. You need to smile and be approachable. This means going places without a girlfriend or wing woman. Guys tend to avoid women in crowds of other women.

3. You need to be proactive in your approach. If you see a cute guy and have smiled at him and he does not come over, walk up to him and ask him if he would like some company? This is especially effective if you are having lunch and he is having lunch or dinner alone. Guys actually like women making the first move sometimes.

4. Ask him tons of questions and act interested in his replies. By keeping the questions up you can find out tons of info about the guy in a relatively short period of time. Also don’t interrupt him when he is talking, guys hate that. Wait until a natural pause in the conversation to bring up additional questions or a question about what he is talking about.

5. Men want a willing and adventurous sex partner. Guys are becoming more discriminating in their sexuality. This means that you need to free up those inhibitions. Also invest in some frilly lacy lingerie. Men love that as we are all visual creatures. Most women are still wearing virginal white nylon panties with no lace, BORING! Wear a lacy bra as well and wear a semi transparent blouse so that he can see the lace through it. This tells him that you are not a sexual prude and understand his sexuality. The last thing that you want him thinking while making love with you is that a previous girlfriend was better in bed than you.

6. Be willing to tell him what you want sexually. Men naturally want to please you but every woman reacts differently to different stimulation. Guys would love it if you say faster, or slower, softer or harder. When you come, be sure to scream. Guys love it and you will find that if you do this, your climaxes will actually be more intense. This is why you hear women tennis players grunting and screaming when they hit the ball, it delivers 30% more power.

7. Let him have his space and don’t be clingy. Also be trustworthy and don’t snoop through his stuff unless given permission. Women are naturally curious but avoid this.

Let me know how this works for you and if you have anything to add to snagging Mr Right

Blessings on you and yours
John Wilder

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20 Tips for Keeping the Relationship Strong

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I copied this from another blogger who goes by the handle of Warmsouthernbreeze.
He copied it from various web sites. I liked it so much that I have chosen to give him a repost or guest post on my blog. You can read more of his work by going to the following link. Enjoy and have sex more often with your significant other. It maks life better.

http://warmsouthernbreeze.wordpress.com/2011/01/07/marriage-tips-love-boosters-for-women/#more-4137

Marriage Tips
Love Boosters For Women
From Various Websites
Many a marriage expert (or maybe your own preconceived notions) would have you believe that you need to spend huge blocks of so-called quality time working on “Life’s Most Important Relationship” to keep it going strong.

For most of us living in the real world, however, those just-the-two-of-us candlelit dinners and deep, soulful talks don’t fit into a regular routine. And that’s okay. The fact is, marriage is in the details: the little stolen moments you two share each day. Need inspiration? Try one or two of these sweet and romantic ideas, most of which take no more than five minutes and will keep you crazy in love.

Written for the woman but works for men too. Use your imagination.

1. Tell him why he’s so much sexier now than when you first met him.

2. Pat his butt when he passes your chair on the way to let the dog out.

3. Bring him a cup of freshly brewed coffee when he’s up late working.

4. Watch The Three Stooges with him without even once asking “What’s funny about this?”

5. Develop code gestures for when you’re out in public. Signals that communicate the following are crucial: “This party is boring me to tears” and “I’ve got to get you home and make love to you.”

6. Get up with him a half hour earlier than usual and use the time to talk, make love or just read the paper together, side by side.

7. Link up your Palm Pilots and leave him a love message for the day.

8. Plop onto the sofa and give each other simultaneous two-minute foot massages.

9. Play “your” song on the stereo when he walks in the door after a sweaty bout with the snowblower.

10. Farm the kids out to their friends’ houses one night every month. Note: Double-check to make sure that they’re all gone on the same night.

11. Play a game of strip Yahtzee. (Watch out for the large straight.)

12. Never underestimate the power of a sudden passionate kiss before dinner.

13. After driving his car, refill the tank.

14. Once in a while, go ahead and wear the lingerie he likes – even that thong you wish you’d never bought.

15. Get him a coupon card for a free coffee at his favorite java joint and slip it into his briefcase when he’s not looking.

16. Hold his hand at parent-teacher conferences, soccer games and ballet recitals.

17. In bed at night, make sure to touch at least one part of his body, even if you don’t go for full-tilt spooning.

18. Smile across the pillow at him first thing in the morning.

19. Go grocery shopping together and pick out something really luscious for dessert.

20. Then sit on the couch with your legs entwined and take turns feeding it to each other.

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5 Sex Tips for Christmas

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I bring you this little present of a guest post from the online magazine called Betty confidential. Why not add your own holiday themed sex tips to the comments section. Have a very merry and naughty Christimas and a raunchier new year.

Blessings on you and yours
John Wilder

‘Tis the season to get it on in bed! With those chilly temperatures, spending time inside getting hot and heavy with your man, or a special friend, is a great way to stay warm during winter. Check out these 5 holiday themed sex tips to spice up your December!

5. Mistletoe: Hang this over your bed to let your man know that every night is a go during holiday season

4. Candy Cane Vibrator: Grown-ups get toys during the holidays too! Give your sex life a holiday theme by giving yourself the gift that keeps on giving and snapping up one of these holiday theme vibrators.

Read Your New Year’s Sex Resolutions

3. Jingle Bells: Spice up the “you on top” position by reaching around a grabbing his bags of fun while you are riding him. “I love when my girlfriend grabs my balls while we are doing it with her on top,” Brandon from Orange County says. “It kicks the whole sexual experience up a notch!”

2. The Mint Candy Cane Oral Sex Trick: Break off a small piece of mint candy cane, and suck on it until your mouth is coated with the minty tingle. Then slip the piece to the side of your mouth and give your man oral sex. He will love the tingly sensation he feels from the mint (An Altoid or other mint works well, too).

1. Role playing: Dressing up during the holidays can be extra sexy when you play Santa and Mrs. Claus. Who has been nice – and more importantly, who has been naughty?!

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